Mankato Memoirs: Sexual Harassment from Other Strippers

Sexual harassment was part of my Mettler’s lawsuit, and it had nothing to do with Jacob Davis. The majority of sexual harassment and assault that I experienced while working inside of Mettler’s was from other dancers. Rather than spending agonizing days making separate posts about these hags, I’ll make it real quick and lump them all in the same post. I don’t want to think about them too much. I have no say in what types of dancers tend to engage in a type of sexual assault that they think of as playful lesbian ass play. What I will say is that there are predictable types of dancers who engage in this creepy behavior, and I avoid them to the best of my ability. What I will say is that I never experienced this in Oregon. I will describe the five dancers who I named in my lawsuit.

Athena: I do not know Athena’s real name and can’t find her facebook to doxx her with a photo. She’d do things like grab other dancers asses or genitals. When she tried this with me, I grabbed her hand, bent her fingers back and said, “DON’T FUCKING TOUCH ME.” She stopped with me after that, but continued with other dancers. I didn’t tell on Athena to management, because I was exhausted with taddling by that time.

Kels: Kels was one of the dancers who was fired during that fight I posted about a few weeks ago. I don’t know her real name or have her photo. I can’t find her mugshot. Otherwise, I would doxx her. She fondled my buttocks while I was working, so I told management. They “talked” to her, which resulted in her becoming angry and gossiping about me more with other dancers. I was SO relieved when she was fired for fighting.

Nadia: Same story— I don’t know her real name or have her photo to doxx her. Same story— she engaged in predatory lesbian behavior.

Candice Will: Candice went by Candy at Mettler’s. She came up behind me and fondled my buttocks while I was giving a lap dance. I told management. They spoke with her. She continued to harass me at work by doing things such as giving a half-assed apology for touching me, even though I didn’t want to talk to her at all. She repeatedly asked me to fasten her brassiere in the dressing room, which was disgusting, because I didn’t want to touch the body or undergarments of someone who had previously sexually harassed me. One time she bullied me into driving her to a casino after work, because she knew that other dancers had successfully guilt tripped me into sometimes giving them car rides. I hit a raccoon while she was in my car, and still feel terrible about it. Candice generally didn’t give a shit. She’s a fairly threatening person in a really disturbing passive way, and stated that she fondled DJ Karl’s buttocks to get what she wanted around work. She acts really chipper and nice but is actually a volatile person. The Mettler’s staff was nice to her because they felt sorry for her and thought she had a sweet personality. They didn’t mind too much that she was a sexual predator. People don’t usually take sexual predators seriously if they don’t fit the profile of one, so yeah, I named this sick bitch in my lawsuit.

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Sharde Allen: I don’t remember her stage name, but I did find her facebook. I guess Sharde Allen is her real name, but sometimes people use fake names on facebook too. Sharde and I were on friendly terms until she ran up behind me and smacked my ass. Management saw. I doubt they did anything about it. I didn’t bother talking to them about it, because again, I was exhausted with taddling on all these people. I made it clear to Sharde that I didn’t want her touching me. Not only were we not on friendly terms any more after that, but she would go out of her way to dramatically toss her ugly long fake braids while she was near me, in order to whip me with the ends of them. She would intentionally arrange her lap dances close to me while I was dancing, in order to whip me with her braids. She is creepy and weird as fuck.

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